23 August, 2009

Cheers to the girls who lasted the night

In April at a 'gathering' Brom and I decided we should go out again. Her and I had only been out once before, in January. But it had been FUN. Tar & I have been out several times and never had a bad time. Now, when i say out, I mean out. One of those nights were you end up spending several hundred dollars and wonder how, where you start with predrinks, try cocktails along the way, end up eating little and try a few clubs before finding the one and stay there until 2,3,4 in the morning. The next day you should have few plans. The trick with these nights is the more planning you put in the worse the night will be. So Bom and I decided that i'd talk to Tar and choose a a date, put it on her facebook and we'd not make any more plans til the day before.

As always life got in the way, nearly four months later we finally set a date. I started making plans but didn't share them til the days before then i start feeling i'd over thought it so suggested we cancel. No Way Tar responded, her and Brom were to excited. So two days before I let them know my thoughts. They agreed and we'd have a couple extras joining us along the way. The day of I booked the restaurant, nd we organised meeting for pre-drinks. then Brom cancels. Tar and I decide to go ahead still. Brom will join us for a pre drink before we leave. After leaving the snacks i was meant to bring at work, I go buy more to save time, then in the rush to catch my tram, I leave the second lot at home. I get to my tram stop only to see it 50 meters down the road - after my stop... I wait the fifteen minutes til the next one and arrive in Vermont 50 minutes later with the task of finding Tar some foundation as she's left her make up bag in Julz's car. I meet mum (Tar's mum) and we walk around coles buying the snacks (my third attempt) I forgot, make up and other bits an pieces, then mum drives me home. I find Tar and Brom getting ready - Brom has changed her mind. Mum and I put some food together, and we drink

The cab has been booked for eight, and Brom is going to stay at Tar's house, and Tar is going to stay at Julz's. All seems to be coming together til Brom realises she's left her license at her shop. so she's going to get that, drive home ,and we'll pick her up from there. As I go to call the cab to delay the pick up he rings the doorbell. e says he'll return at 8.30, Brom leaves, mum gets confused. But its going to be ok. 20 minutes or so later we get a call from Brom. She's locked her keys in her car. Including her house key. She now has her license but can't go home. We suggest she call RACVand we'll meet her at her car instead of at home. She calls back, understandably stressed by the situation. And now the cab is back, she has a decision to make... She's not going to come so we jump in the cab, just the two of us, meeting the other two at the restaurant. The cab ride is fun, and the driver is cute! The alcohol is wearing off by the time we arrive - COCKTAIL time. We order and the others arrive. Tar's dad calls, after her mum confuses him as well. Nothing strange about this, but he goes to bed about 8pm, and gets up at 4am. So an 10pm call is rather odd. We eat and chat as girls do. A few cocktails, yummy food and a couple hours later we discuss where we are going next. Af says she's been where we were thinking of before and she doesn't rate it. But they are going home anyway. so now Tar and I have a decision to make...

In a couple of hours we need to meet Julz in Prahan. So we decide to get th girls to drop us off down there on their way home. Surely there'll be something for us to do down there... so we say goodbye to the girls just past Chapel Street (Prahan) and go to cross the road at lights at a side street just down from Chapl. A car runs the red light, and hits another car, mostly ripping off its bumper bar. Tar being the good citizen decides we should give our details as witnesses, so we go down another side street to where they have pulled over to assess the damage. We give our details anda start making our way back, on the way we decide to stop at a club that seems pretty popular, $15 cover charge, this better be worth it. Some guys ask if they can join us as the club won't let in just guys - its a guy/girl ratio thing. So we have a group of5 as far as the door. then tar and I head to the bathroom, never to see the guys again. Seeing all the girls around we realise we are the most covered up girls there. As we leave the bathroom we notice our light coloured skin and blondeish hair is standing out. It seems we have found a clubfor Italians, Greeks and the like. We decide to grab a drink, take a seat and people watch. Its fun for a while, but the novelty wears off so we go to leave but decide we have to have one dance first. We dance to one of the over-reminxed songs they are playing waiting for it to be over. Where to next?

Chapel street. We walk along, interested in some of the people walking by, and laughing at how our night is turning out. We are meant to meet Julz at a bar on the corner of Chapel and Greville so we walk down Greville to find it assuming its down that way. We don't find his bar, but we come across a bar still open although quiet. Tar hs been here before but it was much busier last time. We grab a drink from a bar tender who is obviously new, and take a seat. Tar with her wine, me with my vodka, we laugh at our night - a comedy of errors & cheers - to the girls who lasted the night...

05 January, 2009

Baby, Baby, Baby


So the news of the day is that Kathryn had her baby... Kathryn is my best friend.  I don't use that term lightly... During highschool i had several 'best friends', it wasn't till i met K and became friends with her that i understood true friendship.  She didn't judge me, she loved me unconditionally, she was honest with me...  It's hard to keep up a quality friendship long distance, sometimes i wonder if she still considers me her best friend, but I know that i'm a part of her life, and her family in a way few other people are.  When i was in the states her sister introduced me to ppl as her sister.  And when she told me about the baby today, she said i was an Aunty, again... 
There's a bond there that time and distance can not sever, and I love that. 

So baby Jahare was born on the 1st, he is waiting to be named, apparently he is going to choose a name tomorrow... we'll see.  I've decided to head up there on the 24th for a week, its been 7.5 yrs, i can't tell you how scared and excited i am.  I have been wanting to jump out of my skin tonight. 

I don't have a picture of the baby yet, i'm sure they'll be plentiful once i've been.  

But my photo for today is a picture of my best friend.  The most beautiful, amazing person I know...  And the person in this world I daily thank God for...  And when I see the southern cross in the sky I ALWAYS say hi to her and blow a kiss...  Just so I remember all that she means to me...  Not that i could ever forget... 

04 January, 2009

And for today

I don't really have much to say today, and to be honest i have a headache - i think from swimming for a couple hours!

But two things, firstly i'm actually kinda excited about going to work tomorrow coz i'm going to book my trip to PNG (hopefully). Haven't been there in 7.5 years, so I am really excited about it. Once that's booked i think my day may go downhill again!

Secondly, I'm feeling really blessed by God at the moment. He has these small ways of coming through for me. I don't pray for them, and i don't feel deserving, but I do feel blessed and have spent a lot of time thanking Him.

Ciao.

i forgot my picture for yesterdays blog that i did today.

Yes man

I know i'm naughty for not writing yesterday, third day in and i can't keep up... it can only go down from here coz i start work tomorrow! But i'm hoping... The silly thing is i literally did nothing yesterday... i watched TV, read, did stuff on the computer with my photos. but didn't go out or anything. So i have no excuse for not writing. I did however have a topic...

I saw yes man the other night (Friday) and early on in the movie, Suraj (who i was there with - obviously) asked if i thought i was a 'yes man'. I said it depended on the circumstances, but i think generally yes. He asked if i thought he was, and i asked if he thought he was...

But now i'm wondering, am I really a yes man? In the movie its represented as saying yes to EVERYTHING. And if you say no all these terrible things happen. I wouldn't say I'm a yes man to that extent, but I reckon i'm pretty open to new experiences. I often use lack of funds as an excuse not to do things, but that's not right, that really isn't a good enough excuse.

So the long and the short of it is that this year, or even over the next couple months I need to a. be more aware of what i say no to, and b. say yes to more things that come my way. It can't hurt right?

02 January, 2009

We are all Gods people...


I was just putting my make up on to go out tonight, and remembered the first time i noticed someone had a different skin colour to me... Nori is Sri Lankan, i knew that, I knew her whole family, but it wasn't till we were one day out shopping, i'd say we'd been friends for about 5 years, we were looking at foundation, and she made a comment about how it was hard for her to get make up to match her skin colour, and i asked why, then looked at her, i'm sure her and Jackie (who was also there) laughed at me for it, but it was the first time I realised she had a different skin colour to me. Can you see her above?


It amazes me how so many people grow up seeing colour, especially these days? I know I have racist thoughts, but I certainly wouldn't call myself a racist, I complain about certain races driving ability, I remember thinking when I went to the states how so many mexicans had crappy jobs, and being scared of black people. Where does this come from? Is it just the movies? I know my thoughts are normal, and maybe its just coz here we don't have Mexicans and Black people are try hard ganstas here (hehe) but i just don't get how i've ended up with these thoughts, when it took so long for me to see a close friend had a different skin colour to me. After meeting several black people in the US i realised they are not all bad, every country has bad people, of all races, but now i wouldn't be scared of black people... Ok, and i know i'm not meant to call them black, BUT here we don't have African Americans, we have black people - aboriginals, people from the south pacific, Africa... all over, you can't narrow it down. So please forgive my terminology.

Anyway, i'm just confused how a. some people grow up knowing and being racist and other people - like me, its happened over time... But i still wouldn't call myself a racist - there's a lot of crappy caucasian drivers out there too!

010109

Ok, this is kinda silly, but i've realised taking a photo shouldn't be too hard given i have a decent camera phone (photos are decent during the day at least) and from that i can email them to myself. So we'll see what happens. Anyway, photo 1, this is from sitting in my bed (i said i was in a small room) i had to get rid of a heap of photo frames, and i wanted to have special photos up, it brings good vibes - ppl i love, ppl who love me... Anyway, i put them all up but the door they are on was a little open at the time and i was standing on the side, so it wasn't till i'd put them all up that i realised ALL of them were crooked... character?

New Year... New start?

I can't believe 2008 is over, i say that every year but i mean it... again.

I've had a pretty amazing year, been to the states for almost a month, and then Paris & Dubai.
I'm wondering if i can record this year properly in a blog... i'll try anyway!
Maybe even try the random photo thing... (a photo a day...)

I hope to travel more this year... trying to figure it all out. First trip will hopefully be to PNG for a week or so coz Kathryn was due to have a baby a week ago. Then maybe a cruise with a few girlfriends, and i'm looking at China and the Trans-siberian railway. But we'll see... I planned to do more this year than i did, so you never know.

Brony, a close friend got engaged a few weeks ago so that's exciting. And now there's an engagement party for me to help organise.

I had a great Christmas with the family. Worked on my tan a little, and just had fun... It's rare for that to happen in my family.

What else? I moved house in late October, now am in a TINY room in a two bedroom apartment. It's small but location is great, and I am happy here - so far ;)

I'm really looking forward to 2009, and whats in store, my aim is to continue to better myself and be a better person. It'd be hard for me not to fulfill that new years resolution...

I thought of an idea re the photo thing... gonna do that now!

01 October, 2008

Work changes are exciting???

So i got in trouble the other day for not updating my blog... i'm sorry. I don't have an excuse, for some reason i guess i just never feel there's anything important to say.

Anyway, my big exciting thing that happened yesterday that probably won't be that exciting to anyone else is:

haha, you have to read the whole story. So Friday's in my office are a bitch. The last few weeks i've ended up in tears from being too stressed and making stupid mistakes. I've mentioned it to my boss and she suggested I work from 10am til 6.30. Coz i generally don't leave till 7 on Friday's anyway, the problem is starting later on a Friday will just mean i work later, so starting at 10 i'd end up leaving at 9pm or something. So i had a performance review, it was actually a really good one. We have them monthly so they arent as official as the ones i'm used. I also don't get a pay rise out of them. :) It's all about budgets and targets and stuff.

Anyway, so to solve my Friday problem I'm now going to be working 9-1 on Saturdays and start at 1 on Mondays. It seems stupid that i think having to go to work 6 days a week is exciting, but i get a bit of a sleep in on Saturdays still, i don't have as bad Mondayitis and given i work most weekends anyway, it will mean time in the office when its quiet - rather than on Mondays when the phone is ringing.

So that's my exciting news, i'll have to report back after i've done it a few times to let you know if it actually works.

22 May, 2008

I choose to be happy!

Things have been tough lately. I've been working WAY too much and now uni is finishing up so the stress of assignments and exams has hit me. On top of that i'm seeing a guy who is really sweet but typical Emily is over analysing everything. I'm going to America in August, and i'm stressed about money. I've also not had a real home since September. I've been a bit down, and i'm sure lack of sleep has contributed to that... But today i'm choosing to be happy:

* I'm almost finished uni after 4 long years working my butt off at work and uni! WOHOO
* I only have one more assignment and one more exam! WOHOO
* I haven't had to work that much this week, i've got stuff to do but I'm not pressured! WOHOO
* This guy says he likes me, and seems really sweet... that's it. If he's not right there are plenty other fishies in the sea! WOHOO
* I'm going to America in August and fulfilling a long term dream! WOHOO
* I'm going to get to see friends i haven't seen in years, who actually understand me and are as crazy as me! WOHOO
* I have somewhere warm to sleep, i have that many things to make me comfortable its not funny. I have food to eat. So many ppl have less! And fingers crossed i'll have a permanent home in a month or so! WOHOO
* I had a pretty good nights sleep last night! WOHOO

So today. I choose to be happy...

'Always look on the bright side of life'...

06 May, 2008

Red Marbles

I got an email today called 'Red Marbles'. I'm not going to post the whole story, but i thought these were cool so thought i'd blog them. Some i've heard before, but I just like them what can i say???
I want to live the kinda life that leaves a mark... What am I doing today to leave my mark???

We will not be remembered by our words but by our kind deeds.
Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breath away...

Today I wish you a day of ordinary miracles…
A fresh pot of coffee you didn't make yourself…

An unexpected phone call from an old friend…
Green lights on your way to work…
The fastest line at the grocery store…
A good sing-along song on the radio…
Your keys found right where you left them…

It's not what you gather but what you scatter that tells what kind of life you have lived.